Comments on: How can you get the credit cards to stop coming to your un employed better half? http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/ Call 888-653-9681 To Get Debt Help Now! Mon, 15 Aug 2011 03:14:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Neg A http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1316 Neg A Mon, 10 Aug 2009 06:58:31 +0000 http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1316 They will never stop sending her cards (I've tried, believe me) if they have a reason to send it to her. The best thing for you two is to communicate calmly. Tell her she can't be doing this and, if necessary, seek therapy for her spending problem. Ask for her cooperation to cut the cards and freeze accounts. If you cut one of her cards, it still takes a week or so to get another, so it should slow it down a little. Try not to threaten with a divorce if you still want to be married to her. Besides, even if you stop the credit cards from coming, that doesn't mean she's not capable of getting money somehow. She has a problem that needs to be taken care of before it gets worse. They will never stop sending her cards (I’ve tried, believe me) if they have a reason to send it to her.
The best thing for you two is to communicate calmly. Tell her she can’t be doing this and, if necessary, seek therapy for her spending problem. Ask for her cooperation to cut the cards and freeze accounts. If you cut one of her cards, it still takes a week or so to get another, so it should slow it down a little. Try not to threaten with a divorce if you still want to be married to her.

Besides, even if you stop the credit cards from coming, that doesn’t mean she’s not capable of getting money somehow. She has a problem that needs to be taken care of before it gets worse.

]]> By: Lar_ Dawg http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1315 Lar_ Dawg Sat, 08 Aug 2009 00:18:41 +0000 http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1315 If she is that blatantly disrespectful, Divorce her and make her pay restitution. Grow a spine, it's time to say no. If she is that blatantly disrespectful, Divorce her and make her pay restitution. Grow a spine, it’s time to say no.

]]> By: Peggy I http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1314 Peggy I Wed, 05 Aug 2009 07:51:33 +0000 http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1314 It appears they are extending her credit based on your report. Can you put a freeze on your credit report? Maybe some kind of notice that no credit is to be extended without certain conditions being met. It appears they are extending her credit based on your report. Can you put a freeze on your credit report? Maybe some kind of notice that no credit is to be extended without certain conditions being met.

]]> By: wizjp http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1313 wizjp Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:57:11 +0000 http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1313 Point at the door. Tell her to take her cards with her. Point at the door. Tell her to take her cards with her.

]]> By: perflexed http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1312 perflexed Mon, 03 Aug 2009 23:01:39 +0000 http://www.gettingbestcredit.com/law-ethics/how-can-you-get-the-credit-cards-to-stop-coming-to-your-un-employed-better-half/#comment-1312 my ex had a similiar problem, after 8 years I let her go, that wasn't the only issue. You may be enabling her to be irresponsible by staying with her, and there are plenty of good people out there looking for another good person. my ex had a similiar problem, after 8 years I let her go, that wasn’t the only issue. You may be enabling her to be irresponsible by staying with her, and there are plenty of good people out there looking for another good person.

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